Saturday, July 30, 2011

Recipe: Peanut Butter Cupcakes

These cupcakes were the biggest hit at Saya's cupcake themed 1st birthday party. Anyone who had the opportunity of trying one gave nothing but great reviews, even days later. The only bad part? I never got to hide one for myself. Darn!

Looks like the perfect excuse to make them again. Hopefully Saya isn't allergic to nuts because she will have to try these cupcakes one day too! :)

*Sorry* I don't have a picture of the finished product. I will update when I make these again!


Peanut Butter Cupcakes
TOTAL: 1 - 1.5 hours | MAKES: 24 Cupcakes
Original Recipe: Becky Bakes

Ingredients
Cupcake:
1 stick (1/2 cup) of unsalted butter, softened
3/4 cup firmly packed brown sugar
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1/2 cup creamy peanut butter
4 large eggs, separated
2 cups all-purpose flour
1 tsp baking powder
1/4 tsp salt
1 cup whole milk
24 chocolate covered peanut butter cups

Frosting:
1 cup butter, softened
1 cup creamy peanut butter
1/4 cup whole milk
1 tsp vanilla extract
6 cups confectioners' sugar


Directions - Cupcake:
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line 2 12-cup muffin pans with paper liners. 

2. In a large bowl, beat peanut butter, brown sugar, sugar, and butter at medium speed until fluffy. Add egg yolks, one at a time, beating well after each addition.

3. In a medium bowl, combine flour, salt, and baking powder. Gradually add to butter mixture alternating with the milk, beginning and ending with the flour, beating just until combined after each addition.

4. In a medium bowl, beat egg whites at high speed with a mixer until stiff peaks form. Gently fold beaten egg whites into butter mixture. 

5. Spoon batter into prepared muffin cups, fill each 2/3's full. Place 1 chocolate covered peanut butter cup in the center of each muffin cup, pushing down until the edges of the peanut butter cup is even with the cupcake batter. 

6. Bake for 15 - 20 minutes or until edges of cupcake are golden brown, let cool in pan for 10 minutes. Remove from pans and cool completely. Spread or pipe peanut butter frosting over cupcakes.


Directions - Frosting:

1. In a large bowl, beat butter and peanut butter at medium speed with a mixer until creamy. Add milk and vanilla beating until combined. Gradually add confectioners' sugar, beating until combined.

ENJOY!

Friday, July 29, 2011

PROJECT 365: 7.22.2011 - 7.28.2011

 7.22.2011 - My life saver!


 7.23.2011 - Nely planking...her style


7.24.2011 - Big girl drinking from a straw!


7.25.2011 - Awesomeness :) 


7.26.2011 - My bad-ass Call Center Voodoo doll


7.27.2011 - Day Dreaming {sigh}


7.28.2011 - Saya's new playhouse and picnic table

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Working on ME again!

I LOVE my daughter Saya and she is and will always be my #1 priority. I also LOVE spending time with her and miss her terribly when I am away from her. I hope my message is very clear. Not trying to create any ambiguity here.

Now that I got that straightened out...

I have read time and time again that once you have a child your life will change. I have probably disagreed with that statement internally because I always associated that statement to being negative when in reality the opposite can be true. Yes, my life has changed and many changes have been for the best for which I am wholeheartedly thankful for!

This post is not about these rainbow and lollipop changes. This is about the changes in my life that haven't been positive in nature. I know you are probably thinking this is once again about my weight and you are partially right. That, I can't and won't deny but it has to be mentioned because other changes in my life have stemmed from this as well.

My main problem is that even a year later I still haven't learned to balance my life to make myself a priority as well. I feel so lost. I have taken care of everyone else BUT myself. What can I say? I am my Mother's daughter. She sacrificed herself for years for us and never took the chance to take care of herself. This is by far not a knock on my Mom whatsoever (LOVE YOU Mommy!), as this behavior was much more common back in the day than it is now. We (sibs, father and I and now my niece and nephew) were and still are her life. We have consumed every part of it not giving her time to breathe. This is exactly what is happening to me.

I've essentially let myself go in physical and mental form. I've gained weight (or more like haven't lost the baby weight) and have become hugely insecure. I've always had a low self confidence but I am at an all-time low. I've let this insecurity affect things about me that I never had issues with before. I've become less trusting of people, a little paranoid and more of an introvert than I already was. I am mean to myself and on top of that, I haven't seen my friends in forever and miss them terribly! I have become more worried what people are thinking about even if they have never met me. Now if they have known me or known of me, it makes everything worse. I am embarrassed of who I have become and I am sure it shows. It even has affected my work as I have no longer played "Superwoman" this past year. My quality of life and home life have both taken hits. I do believe that my daily life plays a big part in this mess...

Here is a little taste of my current daily life:

5am            - wake-up, shower, get ready
6am to 7am - commute to work
4pm            - commute home
5:30pm       - pick-up Saya from daycare
6:00pm       - Make dinner for family and feed Saya
7:30pm       - Bath time for Saya baby
8:00pm       - Saya's final play time and wind down time before bed
9:00pm       - Bed time for both (still co-sleeping)

... and it repeats day after day and has for the last 5+ months.

By any chance, did any of you notice any available time for "me-time"? Yeah, me either. I "try" to squeeze in housework, maybe some dishes and laundry before bed but sometimes, Saya makes it impossible, especially when she tries to put everything and their mother in her mouth. And when it comes to bed time, the ONLY thing I can do is watch TV or read a book on my Nook once Saya is asleep. Can't even talk to the hubs since he usually doesn't get home from work until close to midnight. He's been working second shift for the last two years and sometimes I feel like I have seen him more when we were dating then now. If you knew how little we saw each other when we were dating, you would understand how rough this is because at least then we were guaranteed weekends together. Now I know this kind of schedule may work for some but this just isn't me at all.

I'm exhausted, insecure, negative, bored and lonely and I am SO ready for change! All this nonsense has taken away from me living the life I want to live (with my family of course) and since I am the only one who has control of my own happiness, I have to start now! I'm so done complaining! What I have to do is start working on ME again!

In the short-term I need to:
  • Get myself back in shape and healthy again for no one else but ME
  • Get myself on a schedule of my choosing
  • Have "me" time
  • Make time for my friends and schedule more play dates
  • Complete the projects I have been wanting to work on
  • Get myself back in physical, mental, emotional and financial shape
  • Set some short-term realistic goals
  • Be more positive again
  • Stop making excuses
  • Hold myself accountable for my short-comings
  • Stop being so darn lazy
Even with all of this, I do realize that these changes won't happen over night but as long as I am working on them, I can feel like I am accomplishing something. 

Having said all this...I am happy to report that a few changes are already in progress. By the end of this week or latest next week, we are transitioning Saya back into her room but instead of a crib, she will have a nice and soft new mattress and a toddler bed to sleep on. This will give me some "me" time back, not to mention I will get my bed back. Call me selfish (and I don't care)... but I will also get to cuddle with my long lost hubby. Because this too is important! Parents need their alone time and bedtime should be it.

I have also started working out which I haven't done in for-ev-er! I have to remember to take it slow though. I am the kind of person that wants to do a ton of things and am determined to do them but jump too fast too soon. If I start out a little slower, I know I will actually stick with any program of my choosing.

As I work on getting back to ME again, I will document my journey because I am pretty sure I am not alone on this. For me, it is comforting to know that there are people who understand what you are going through completely. We all get broken down at some point in our life. Being able to express it truthfully is one positive step forward!


Now how's that for some honesty?


If you are a Mommy that has found balance (KUDOS to you!), help a sista out! Share some of your tips and tricks! 

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Review: Los Mariachis Mexican Restaurant, Phoenixville, PA

In addition to supplying our favorite recipes, I want to share some information on some FABULOUS restaurants or stores that are worth visiting. I am no food critic but I know what I love, so I hope you find this information useful.

First up - Los Mariachis Mexican Restaurant


Los Mariachis
201 Gay Street
Phoenixville, PA
610.935.2659


Grade: A

When my hubby and I lived in Phoenixville, we were lucky enough to have lived about a half a block from this restaurant so we ordered from them often (but not often enough, lol). When we first went there the restaurant was quite tiny so we only ate there once. With the renovation, they now have the opportunity to have more dine-in customers.

A few things we liked about this restaurant was the fresh food, good portions, decent prices and the service. Family owned and operated, the husband and wife team were very friendly and accomodating. We felt welcomed at any time of the day or night. 

The quality of the food was great and the vegetable toppings (tomatoes, lettuce, etc) were very fresh no matter when we ordered. There really is nothing like fresh toppings! With the platters comes the rice and the to-die-for refried beans. The rice is good but not the most exciting part of the platter. The refried beans are a hit! They are topped with grated parmesan cheese. OMG! I have never had this combination before but it really is a wonderful mix for your taste buds. If you choose to dine in, you get the opportunity of having their homemade tortilla chips as a starter. These were also muy delicioso.

Most of their dishes are the Tex-Mex style that us Americans have grown accustomed to. They do however, offer authentic Mexican dishes as well. No matter what you choose, you will be super satisfied. Oh and be sure to pair your dish up with one of the Spanish sodas they sell!

My favorite dish(es):
Tex-Mex Chicken Tacos Platter
Tex-Mex Beef Chalupas Platter
Burrito

Hubby's favorite:
Tex-Mex Chicken Enchiladas Platter

So if you are in the Chester County area, take a drive to the 'Ville and check this place out. It's only a short few blocks away from the downtown Phoenixville area.

Friday, July 22, 2011

PROJECT 365: 7.15.2011 - 7.21.2011

7.15.2011 - Really? Show frogs?


 7.16.2011 - And all it took was Chicken Nuggets...Who knew?


 7.17.2011 - MmMmM Wabbit!


7.18.2011 - Bret Michael, NOT a fan... of your flavor ice tea that is!


 7.19.2011 - Love me some Tastykake!


 7.20.2011 - Have you met the Milk Man?


7.21.2011 - Luv my Nook-y!



Recipe: Root Beer Bundt Cake

First of all, let me just say how much I LOVE the Food Network and the Food Network Magazine! Prior to this recipe, I haven't made any dishes that have been posted in the magazine usually because I don't have all the ingredients and eventually I forget about using the recipes. For some reason though, I had every single ingredient for this cake. Call it fate if you want. All I know is that this recipe was easy and delicious. Oh and my first chocolate cake from scratch! Here's to trying new things!

This picture right here is my second attempt at the cake. I made the first cake for my neighbor's 4th of July picnic, which I posted a picture on one of my Project 365 posts. The 1st attempt wasn't a fail by any stretch of my imagination, I just messed up the glaze a little. I thought the glaze was too thick so I "thinned" it out with a little more root beer. Not the best idea as the glaze then got soaked into the cake instead of laying on it as it is in the pic below. This time around, I followed the directions to a 'T'. Baking really is a science and not art. Fudge around with the ingredients and you can get a whole new dish entirely.

Well since the hubs and FIL did not get a piece of the 1st cake and again I had enough ingredients, I decided to do a second cake. Also, when I had posted the picture of the Root Beer cake I made for the 4th of July picnic, I received a few requests for the recipe. So here it is. My 1st chocolate cake and my 1st recipe post on The Roddy Bride Blog. Hope you like it! 

P.S. Thank you Chef Sidoti :)


Root Beer Bundt Cake
ACTIVE: 45 Mins | TOTAL: 2 hours | SERVES: 8 to 10 people
Original Recipe: Food Network Magazine July/August 2011 issue - Chef Claudia Sidoti (Food Network Kitchens)

Ingredients
Cake:
2 cups root beer soda, plus 1/4 cup for soaking
1 stick of unsalted butter, plus more for the pan
1 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
1/4 cup bittersweet chocolate, chopped
1 cup granulated sugar
1/2 cup dark brown sugar
3 large eggs, beaten
2 cups all purpose flour, plus more for dusting
1 1/4 tsp baking soda
1 tsp salt
1/4 tsp ground allspice

Glaze:
2 1/2 cups confectioners' sugar
1/4 cup root beer soda
1 tsp vanilla extract
Pinch of salt


Directions:
1. Preheat oven to 325 degrees. Butter and Flour a 12-cup Bundt pan; tap out the excess flour. (I used Pam for Baking)

2. Heat 2 cups of the root beer soda, the cocoa powder, chocolate and butter in a large saucepan over medium heat until the butter melts. Add the granulated sugar and brown sugar and whisk until dissolved. Remove from heat and let cool.

3. Combine the flour, the baking soda, salt and allspice in a bowl.

4. Once cooled, whisk the eggs into the root beer mixture, then gently fold in the dry ingredients. Expect the batter to be lumpy.

5. Pour the batter into the prepared pan and bake until a toothpick inserted into the cake comes out clean, 55 minutes to an hour, rotating the pan halfway through. Transfer the pan to a rack.

6. Gently poke holes all over the cake with a skewer and pour 1/4 cup root beer all over the cake; let cool in the pan for 20 minutes, then invert the cake onto a serving plate and let cool completely.

5. Meanwhile, make the glaze: Whisk the 1/4 cup root beer, a pinch of salt, the confectioners' sugar, and vanilla in a bowl until smooth. The glaze will be a little thick, this is OK. Drizzle over the cake.


Last but not least... ENJOY!


Monday, July 18, 2011

Upcoming Local Event: Be The Match Registry Drive

JOIN THE MARROW REGISTRY
Be the Match Marrow Drive for Jose "Angel" Mojica



Here's a little info on Angel and why he needs your help!
"Jose "Angel" Mojica needs your help. Angel, the 14 year old son of Jose Mojica and Brenda Sanchez, is currently battling Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia (ALL) and will need a bone marrow transplant to survive. Unfortunately, no one in his family was found to be a suitable match so his doctors are searching the Be The Match Registry for an unrelated marrow donor. Angel is the youngest of 4 brothers, loves animals, and wants to be a veterinarian when he grows up. Help make this dream come true by joining the Registry as a potential marrow donor."

Marrow Drive Details:
What: Marrow drive for Angel sponsored by Samuel Adams

When: Wednesday, July 20, 2011
           12 - 4 PM and 9 - 11 PM

Where: Samuel Adams Brewery
            7880 Penn Drive, Breinigsville, PA 18031
            
Questions: Email Sarah Brooks Horan at sbrooks@nmdp.org


* To join, you only need to be between the ages of 18 and 60, be willing to donate to any patient in need, and meet the health guidelines.

1 (800) MARROW-2  

Be The Match

Hello my Fab Followers!

If you have been following me long enough, you would know that my sister, Tanya, is in remission after having Stage 3 Hodgkins Lymphoma which she was diagnosed with last year. One thing you may not know is that one of the treatments for Lymphoma and other blood diseases such as Leukemia is a bone marrow transplant. Thankfully Tanya did not require a transplant but my cousin, Felipe, and our little friend Coco, did require a marrow transplant as part of their treatment.

Having said that, there are over 300 patients in PA alone that are in need of a marrow transplant who currently do not have a matched donor because only 70% of patients in need DO NOT have a match within their family. For the patients without a match, they turn to Be The Match registry. This is where your help is needed! If you are in relatively good health with no major diseases or disorders, you can join the registry for possible donation to a patient in need. This doesn't schedule your donation but put you on the list of potential donors. I signed up myself and I am happy that I did. To know that I can potentially help save a life is HUGE! 

Their current goal is to diversify the registry. They are in desperate need of donors of a minority decent (Latino, African American, Native American, etc.). We are currently only a small set (~ 30%) of the registry population with many of the patients requiring our help.

To join the Be The Match registry, I filled out some personal information and took large q-tips given to me to swap sections of my mouth. That is it! How easy is that? If you are found to be a match then you will be able to proceed and donate your marrow at your will. The transplant may include an outpatient procedure so to make sure you are properly informed, HERE is some more information on the marrow transplant.

Please visit my team page. If you are determined to not be a qualified candidate or choose not to be on the registry, you can still help by making a donation to the registry as it takes $100 per person to be added to the registry. A donation of any amount is greatly appreciated.

Cannot donate monetarily? How about donating your time? Doing so helps bring awareness to this program and more potential donors which is even more important. As an example, you can donate your time by hosting a registry drive (think dinner parties, charity walks, church functions, family gatherings, etc.)

If you are interested in either joining the registry or would like to host a registry drive, please send an email to my team leader, Sarah Brooks Horan at sbrooks@nmdp.org.

Thank you in advance for taking the time to look into this!

Have a FABULOUS week, my friends!


Here is a FACT SHEET provided by Be The Match:
Media Fact Sheet

Friday, July 15, 2011

PROJECT 365: 7.08.2011 - 7.14.2011

7.08.2011 - Leave me alone, I am soothing myself!


7.09.2011 - How I wake up.


7.10.2011 - Yummy Mac 'N Cheese!


7.11.2011 - Shoes with Bling!


7.12.2011 - There she blows!


7.13.2011 - Panera Strawberries & Cream scone was here... 
Signed, My Belly! :)

7.14.2011 - Only a select few will understand.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Project Craft Wall

Remember this poor lonely red wagon?



OK, well look at the even lonelier wall behind it. That right there is going to be my future craft space or craft wall I should say. Yippee! Can you feel my excitement? Maybe just a little? Huh? Huh?

I being a lover of arts and crafts, always dreamed of having my own little room or space to where I can put my skills to work. Once the hubs cleaned out this space in the basement, a light bulb went off! I was finally able to use my imagination and think about how to use that now empty space. Lucky for me, it didn't take any convincing for my hubs to agree with my idea. In fact, when I showed him a tiny sample of what I would like it to look like, he LOVED it! No exaggeration there. He actually used the word "LOVE", lol. It really is the most perfect spot for a craft space. I can put a nice long desk and add some shelving to store all my supplies.

The only problem? Trying to narrow down all my crazy ideas to make it an ideal spot that I will actually use. So I thought posting about this project will help me to bring my ideas together and even get some of your input when I need it. Now bear with me, I have an eclectic taste in things. I like mixing patterns and I am not afraid of color but I also love my primary colors as well. Hm...Bright and bold OR calm and muted?

So to get things started, here are a couple of pictures I found on Ikea. I am aiming for the space to be sort of a hybrid of the two.

I love the desk and chairs in this picture...


BUT I love the shelving in this picture...


The rest of the details are up in the air and I mean way up in the air.

As for the wall color, I am conflicted. Do I add color or make it psych-hospital white and bring out the color with the accessories, tools and supplies? Here is what I have to consider in making this decision. The craft wall is part of a large open space which is considered our basement. The room immediately to the left is my other home a.k.a. the laundry room. Eventually where the basketball backboard is at will be our shared office / work bench area and to the right of the soon-to-be craft wall is our storage. As you can see, I need to make the decision of having my wall blend in or be on its own as if it is a separate room.

Decisions...Decisions! At least I have time to make this the craft area that I want to make it. 

Ah, I can't wait to get started! I'm going to start gathering more ideas. Google, here I come!  :)

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

The Roddy Bride on FB

For my Fab followers that didn't already know, you can find me on Facebook!

Just search for The Roddy Bride Blog and get your "Like"-ness on!

See you there!

Monday, July 11, 2011

Confession...

I have a confession to make.

I cheated... on my "diet"! 

It all started with a Black + White milk shake (bad, I know...I blame the hubby since he brought it home w/o me asking) a week and a half ago and I haven't looked back since. The worst offense was at Saya's 1st b-day. There was pizza, wings, sandwiches and cupcakes galore. I've cheated morning, noon and night. Over and over again. I even cheated this morning with an English muffin and small OJ.

Why am I telling you this you may be asking?! Good or bad, I need to be able to be truthful and provide the most accurate results. I said I would provide updates, so I can't hide this. I also wanted to show that I AM human. I too make the most stupid mistakes even when I know the outcome is no good. But I have no fear that I will make the right decisions again. In fact, yesterday I went to the store to buy a few "diet" appropriate foods. I will be starting an exercise routine as well this week.

Unfortunately, as a result of my cheating, I pretty much have to start all over. I gained back around 5 lbs (maybe more). But it ends here. I will cheat ONLY on my cheat days.

Hope you choose to stick around for my updates!

Friday, July 8, 2011

PROJECT 365: 7.01.2011 - 7.07.2011

7.01.2011 - Damn near killed these... Thanks Tio!


 7.02.2011 - They're HEEEERRRREEE! :)


 7.03.2011 - KNOCKED out after the Alicea 4th of July picnic


7.04.2011 - Root Beer cake... oh yeah, it was goooood!


7.05.2011 - Giddy for giddy?


7.06.2011 - Not moving with only 2 more miles to exit...sigh!


7.07.2011 - Stop with the pictures already!

Upcoming Local Events: Tee Time for Coco - Registration now open!



Registration is now open for Tee Time for Coco! All registrations and sponsor forms are due by September 16th. Don't wait too long, teams do fill up fast!

The Details:

Date: October 1, 2011

Time: 1:00 PM Shotgun Start / Registration starts at 11:30 AM

Place: Bethlehem Municipal Golf Course
         400 Illicks Mill Road
         Bethlehem, PA 18017
         www.bethlehemgc.com (directions)

Fee: $85 per golfer / 4 golfers per team

Includes: Green Fees, Golf Cart, Golfer's Gift, Box Lunch, Dinner, Beer / Drinks

Event Features:
  • Silent Auction
  • Attractive Raffle Prizes
  • Long Drive Contest - Men & Women's competition
  • Closest to Pin
  • Pot of Gold
  • Prizes for 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place teams

For more information AND to sign up: Go HERE!

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Just B.

"B. curious B. pensive
B. loud B. happy and sad all at the same time
B. generous B. afraid
B. quiet B. wild B.fun
B. open B. scientific
B. poetic B. giddy
B. serious B. smart
B. free B. you"

-- Toysmith Parum Pum Pum Drum booklet

Friday, July 1, 2011

PROJECT 365: 6.24.2011 - 6.30.2011

 6.24.2011 - T~Dawg helping with B-Day baking.


6.25.2011 - Saya in her b-day outfit.


 6.26.2011 - Saya playing with her new guitar


6.27.2011 - Saya's smash cake (courtesy of Mommy) 
which she barely touched


6.28.2011 - New bath toy!


6.29.2011 - WTHeck is that doing there?


6.30.2011 - Bad Hubby! Bad!